Thursday, October 15, 2009

purity in relations- does it exist?

It's a thing of the past now (or is it not)? Does purity in relationships still exist? Well by purity in this context i mean loyalty and things that cling along with this word like infidelity,cheating,extra marital affairs and yes all of you are allowed to think that this is coming from a troubled writer . Yes i am troubled very much indeed. I am troubled to see why couples are splitting at an early age and why marriage has become a hit and trial institution. Is it an influence from the west but we do have brains of our own right? . Surely we can decide where we belong; whom we belong to.

Firstly who is to blame here? Blaming men entirely for it is baseless and not my escape here. Because it's after all a women who attracted him. Where is the root of this problem. I strongly feel it's the over exposure of freely accessible sexual data (read porn) to all ages. That's the holy bible that places ideas into young minds. Next would be accessible women for putting the read content into practice (haven't mentioned freely here because there is no such thing as a free lunch ). Legalizing prostitution makes no sense at all too.I mean the thought of legalizing such horrendous thing gives me the creeps. Wouldn't educating and putting them(sex-workers) to nations use be a better idea. Making everything available would mean putting a lamb in front of a hungry lion and then crib.

Why not nip the opportunities which men exploit in the bud. Wouldn't it be better if we all go back to happy times where terms like "one women man " "one man women "still exist. Put yourself to better worthy uses and save yourself the trouble of gaining pounds and wasting Kleenex!

1 comment:

Fauji said...

interesting..........